While there is some truth to these concepts - because none of us wants to be with someone exactly like us in every way - two people... Read more No matter if you love or hate texting, it’s hard to escape the “texting phase” in a budding relationship.
Read more I read Save the Date, mostly on my front porch, in a hammock. In the best case, it’s an exchange of witty one-liners and fascinating reveals that create a slow build of anticipation to chatting on the phone...
There are some other compelling reasons for why older women are more attractive to younger guys.
Unlike most college-aged kiddos, my sights were never set on studying abroad.I never dabbled with the idea of taking time off to backpack around Europe or do a gap year in Asia to find my zen.These younger guys are both curious and excited about dating a woman who, is not ashamed of what she wants sexually, unlike the younger girls of his own age who are often confused about just about everything, including their romantic and sexual desires.That relationship between a younger guy and an older woman is likely to be supercharged by a combination of the younger man’s peak sex drive and the older woman’s confidence, experience and her own sex drive.I can’t go into as much depth as I’d like to in this post, but men and women have different senses of how they’d like to be noticed for things (and what they’d like to be noticed for.) At the root of it, when a man feels like he make a woman happy, he will not want to be in a relationship with her (or if he stays, he will not want to deepen it). Back to neediness: When a woman starts acting needy, especially in the beginning of a relationship, it shows up as the ultimate red flag. Neediness is synonymous with ’emotional dependency’, as in: “This woman is dependent on the guy in order for her to feel good.” Now, sometimes when I start explaining this, I’ll get a comment saying, “Oh so what? You can have it all, too, but what I’m trying to explain in this article is that you don’t get it from it.
On the other hand, when a woman acknowledges him for all the things he’s doing well, he will almost certainly want to deepen the relationship and stay in it. We’re supposed to be emotional robots with no feelings or desires and just accept anything a guy is doing without complaint? You create a relationship with those qualities by inspiring those things within the relationship.Men and women who play hard to get may engage in any of the following behaviors: they express interest but never commit...Read more Unlike most college-aged kiddos, my sights were never set on studying abroad.The problem with neediness is that instead of inspiring all of those positive relationship qualities, the “needy person” acts as if their partner is denying them those good relationship qualities…like they’re entitled to them and their partner is cruelly withholding it.That higher sex drive translates, among other things, into being more direct with men.