You could call these panty piddlers part of the lost beta generation. It is much more likely that Jobs’ refusal to buy Baez that dress made him seem *more* alpha, and hence more desirable, to her.
Buying women stuff — particularly buying them stuff before you have sexed them numerous times — is a surefire way to fast track yourself into the beta provider zone where women lose all arousal and make you wait three months for sex.
I don't think that money should be a big issue in dating, and I wanted to find someone who didn't car too much for money [M 24]. Not that money can buy love, but rather money is an essential part of the dating process.
I don't know if you can possibly have one without the other [F 24]. Like they try to buy each other or show how much they love each other in how much money they spend on the gift to the other person [F26].
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Unlike before when I viewed dates and gift giving an investment, I was now making decisions about buying from my heart instead of my head.
On your first date she tells you her birthday isn’t until October, and you rejoice.
She’s smart and cute and her face smells like bread, and you have a whole ten months until you have to buy her a birthday present.
For the slow learners: Women do not get viscerally turned on by men who buy them things.
They get avaricious when they think they have a gullible mark in their grasp.
American dating, mating, and courtship activities employ money and tangible gifts as key ritual elements and as focal symbolic vehicles.