You may not realize that when you are flirting online! When you meet somebody for the very first time, it doesn't matter how much you've talked to them online or via Skype.Feeling somebody's energy in person, that's how you make a decision if you're ready to sleep with them or not. All you need to do when it comes down to something like this is to remain present.
I don't know how it happened, but what a lot of women do is send their three best pictures over and over again, when in reality, you should be on Skype with these guys long distance. When you finally do meet him, you might feel just that friendship vibe with him and you might end up meeting a really great friend, somebody who you like for a long time. The problem is a lot of women are out of touch with their sexy side. And nobody can tell you to sleep with him, because you can't make the decision ahead of time.It can provide a fantasy of starring in your own “special” flick without all the life-altering decisions and career changes.It can also provide short-term solutions to long-distance relationships.But as harsh as it sounds, people do get angry with each other and break up. All those hot Skype sex sessions could come back to bite. So when you are getting all hot and heavy for your man, think again.
I am not trying to be the bearer of bad news, but you need to prepare yourself for anything. I have a friend that was putting on a special show for her boyfriend on Skype.
Can you really decide to sleep with someone before you've ever met in person? Standing there naked, literally stripping for them (if you want to go that route and have a little bit of Skype fun), showing them your entire body, who you are, what you look like, sending them pictures every single day in order to flirt. You never know until you're someone's friend what you're going to feel and what you desire, and what you want.
I get this e-mail all the time, yet I seem to always be writing posts about it that no one seems to be reading. Because then the long distance relationship will turn into a fun relationship because when they finally see you, they're super, super excited because they've seen all of you. There is no way in the world you can make that decision until he gets there, until you're in the same room together and you feel the sexual energy—or you don't. You can't make a decision before somebody comes if you're going to sleep with them.
I tried to make the term “Skating” stick in this context, but it didn’t work because there’s already a thing called skating and it doesn’t involve candlelit dinners with your computer.
A year ago I’d never even heard of Skype, but then I somehow fell for an Australian girl I met on Facebook who I never actually met in real life.
Hopefully all pictures were current, because if you don't look exactly like your pictures, then neither one of you is going to sleep with anybody except yourselves. A lot of you have these online long-distance relationships that go on and on and on, but the only way these relationships will ever turn into something is if you represent yourselves exactly as you really look! Every picture you send is a picture you took today. You don't want to find out that he's 40 pounds heavier and bald, even though he had a full head of hair and looks like a young Marlon Brando in the picture, and you don't want to be sending him pictures of yourself when you were skinny when now you're 200 pounds overweight. The thing is, when you first meet someone you've been chatting with online, the first thing he's going to do as a male is look at you up and down and say to himself, "Thank God man, she looks like her pictures." If you don't look like your picture, then we're going to retreat. The best way to get to a man is to appeal to his visual sense.