I can remember going to clubs with my skinny friends and keeping my fingers crossed that guy in the club would be cool with dancing with me. (side note: For this post I’m going to skip over the confidence piece, because I get annoyed with the constant “have confidence! But I will revisit the confidence element in another post.) Okay, back to this 78% thing. Glamour mag didn’t say 78% of attractive doctors and lawyers over six feet tall would prefer a size girl with confidence. So that includes of all types of men, not just what we consider ideal.
And here’s the surprising truth: this show of confidence is exactly that – a show.A man can sense pretense right away, and it can prevent you from truly connecting with his heart…which can then be a hit to your self-esteem.It can be intimidating to shop for clothing online, especially if you haven’t done it before.Not all brands and designers use the same sizing guidelines.Think about it: do you connect more with someone who acts like she has her life totally together and is perfect, or with a friend who isn’t afraid to bare her soul to you and show you she’s human…just like you? They long to relate to another and feel a connection just the same. And being with a woman who isn’t afraid to show it is a breath of fresh air.
Here’s how to boost your confidence and open yourself up to a real connection with a man.Plus-size women are not depressed nor do we need extra love or validation.I am not inferior because I’m fat nor do I interpret “fat” as a bad, negative, or forbidden word.I was reading a magazine while doing my laundry and I came across this: I snapped a picture and posted it on my twitter and facebook pages with the caption “thoughts? ” I also got a lot of responses saying “Where are these men?!? The dating life of a Plus Size Princesses can sometimes feel like a scavenger hunt as we keep our eyes peeled for men who don’t have a problem dating a woman with curves (or lumps). So I’m thinking, if 78% of men polled would truly “Rather Date a Confident Plus Size Woman Than and Insecure Supermodel” why is it that PSPs don’t feel like we’ve got a chance with 78% of the men out there? ” a few asked “what do these men consider to be ‘plus size’?Shopping for plus size clothing in most retail stores is a less than enjoyable experience. You have to shop in the back of the store in the hidden, tucked away plus size department.