However, through time the United States has drifted far from these standards and at the present our moral standards are shocking the world. The sin of fornication is being committed even among Christians, as many couples “live together” and have sex before marriage. We have counseled Christians of the opposite sex who share an apartment and they told us they were not having sex so this surely wasn’t wrong.The Bible declares these words in 1 Thessalonians -23: “Abstain from all appearance of evil.
Anyone with an Internet connection has access to a seemingly infinite array of porn choices -- every fantasy you’ve ever had is available with the click of your conveniently one-handed mouse.So if so many of us are enjoying porn on our own, wouldn’t it make sense to start enjoying it together?The problem is, there are many considerations that guys have to make that you need to consider too. Personally, I don’t plan on getting married until I’m ready to start a family.When you can understand why a guy might have reservations to getting married (or at least, might not be motivated to get married), it will help you communicate better and ultimately get you to a place where you may both decide it’s time for marriage. That’s just my personal view and I’m not suggesting or projecting that anyone else should share it.1 Corinthians -20 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.As licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist Dr.Rachel Needle explains, “Start with something small and go from there.I’ve met plenty of women who are in a hurry to get married.And I understand the reasons: biological clock, all your friends are married, you feel like “it’s time”, you want to have final commitment, etc.It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.