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That awkward, yet intense "I'm feeling you" first play has been replaced for a few left or right swipes on a mobile dating app. What can I say, the NBA playoffs are off to a great start.

Now that you've accepted that the [dating] game has changed, according to a 2014 Pew research study, 56% African Americans and 53% of Whites own a smartphone.

Regular sex is simply about a release, or relieving yourself of stress. Soul sex is the understanding that it is really the exchange of energy, your energies and your partner’s.

I can't remember the last time I was on the dating scene.

I can tell you that it was way before technology started dictating when, where, and how single men and women communicated with each other on a daily basis.

Come to think of it, I'm kind of glad I'm retired and my "single" jersey is hanging in the rafters of the dating Coliseum.

From what I can tell, all of the dating playbook has changed drastically due to advances in technology.

Not many people can be that or do that, but you do. That kiss was so deep and good and it was like this deep pressure and passion and wanting to have absolutely no space left between us, to be completely just one. I will always remember lying on your chest that night afterwards.

When you said you always feel like you control a room and are the one in charge, watching things, running things, that is very true. I have now felt real pleasure in a deep way, and I will always go after it and now know what is possible. I know that was truth, I know with my heart and being and body that was right, so it changed everything in my life to experience such pleasure because it points me more towards what is true and right and undeniably good in my whole life. The whole time I was with you I just wanted your body as close to mine as possible. With every stroke, it was like it was the only one, each one free to be whatever it was. I’m really happy you are in my life, and we had that weekend together.So you would think that finding black on black love via mobile apps like Tinder shouldn't be too much of big deal since the probability that an equal number of African Americans using mobile apps is just about split among the races.According to many Black folks using technology to find a potential mate, that's not the case, and they find themselves digging through tons of profiles just to discover just a few potentials.Real fulfillment cannot be found through the body alone. The pleasure from sex that arises simply through the body is incredibly transitory. Soul sex happens when you recognize who you are and who the other is. Our Adult Chat instant messenger can help you quickly hook-up with new adult friends any time you're horny for sex.